saying no

The People Who Keep Moving Forward Usually Quit These 4 Habits First

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Habits

A friend of mine in his mid-thirties used to answer every email almost immediately. Weekends, holidays, family dinners – it made no difference. His phone was always nearby, and work was always within reach. Then one Sunday afternoon he decided to leave his phone in a drawer until Monday morning. He went for a walk … Read more

Cancelled Plans – Quiet Relief of an Honest No

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Cancelled Plans

There is a particular kind of relief that can follow cancelling a plan you had been dreading for days or even weeks. It is often immediate and physical. Shoulders relax. Breathing slows. The evening suddenly feels open again. For many people, that reaction is not simply about avoiding social interaction. It can reflect something more … Read more